My top 5 amazing sex toys (for discerning ladies)

Sara@minxxx
Jan 13, 2020
7 min read

Updated: Feb 17, 2020

I work in the sex industry and have done for several years. Alongside lingerie and outfits, sex toys are some of the most important "tools of the trade" and so I keep a pretty good supply to keep my client's interested. But that isn't the only reason I am into sex toys.

My "obsession" (I have over 50 different toys, so maybe that counts as an obsession ;) started long long before I began working as an escort and, in fact, before I first even had sex. Modesty prohibits me from stating exactly when that first experience was, but suffice to say, my mum discovered me, on her bed, using one of her vibes and she wasn't best pleased. In fact, she went mental!

A couple of days later though, I returned home and on my bed was a little present, my first vibrator. just a cream, smooth vibe, no more than 3 inches long, but it was the start of a life long over affair with sex toys that continues unabated to this day.

When I chat online, people often ask me what my favourite toy is, and I never really know how to narrow it down to just one. You see, depending on how I'm feeling, what I'm feeling like, where I am or who I'm with, you might get very different answers. But I reckon I probably could narrow it down to five (or maybe 6!).

I don't get paid or sponsored to do any of these reviews and I have paid for and own all of the toys I am reviewing, so rest assured when I say it is good... it is gooooooood! :)

Do let ,e know if you agree with anything I say, if you have alternative suggestions or, if you do happen to buy one of these toys, do let me know how you get on in the comments section at the bottom of the page. I'd love to know your thoughts.

Good vibrations my lovelies xxx

Best all round vibrator - Infinitt Dual Motor 10 - £29.99 from Sextoys.co.uk

The Infinitt 10, I've lost count of how many times this has got me off!

Since Rabbit vibes became a thing many many years ago, there have been hundreds of varieties to choose from. There is a reason why they are so popular, clit stimulation and something vibrating deep in your pussy, it is just a winning combination. And the Infinitt keeps up the tradition. I bought one of these about 3 months ago and it really is my go to, all purpose vibe. It takes hardly any time to charge, lasts for ages, has loads of different settings, feels really high quality and never fails to get me off.

It isn't the most discreet toy out there, true, but there really is nothing better if you just want to lay back, watch some porn or let your imagination run away with you and cum! And right now it is on special offer at Sextoys.co.uk so it's a complete bargain too!

Best mains operated vibrator - Doxy number 3 - £114.99 from Sextoys.co.uk

The undisputed king of mains powered vibrators for many years was the Hitachi massager. Originally designed to ease back pain, it quickly became very popular as a way for women to get off without the fear of running out of batteries! it's high power vibrations became legendary but Hitatchi decided they did not want to be associated with such filth, so stopped making it. A number of companies have copied the design, and I have tried a few, but Doxy is by far the best and their latest version, Number 3, is the best to date.

Slightly smaller than the last version and a little lighter but with all the same power, the Doxy Number 3 is just amazing. Although certainly not cheap, it'll last forever. And for those really long, intense sessions that last for hours, you don't need to worry that you will run out of power. I've introduced a couple of my friends to it and one of my client's even bought his wife one! I'm assuming he didn't mention where he got the recommendation from!

Best butt plug - Fun Factory B-Balls Duo - £32.99 from LoveHoney.co.uk

So I'm a complete anal addict. Genuinely, since I first discovered anal, I have not gone more than a week without partaking in the forbidden fruit of butt fucking! I can go for longer without a cock in my pussy than I can without my ass being fucked. Many people find that surprising, that a woman can love anal so much, but in my experience, women are much more into it than you'd think. So a decent anal toy, really has to be a staple of any woman's toy chest.

There are loads of different types of toys for stimulating your bum... anal beads, dildos, inflating plugs and, increasingly popular are those cute little butt plugs with a jewel poking out. We've had the vajazzle, now its bum jewellery! I have plenty of anal toys, but something with a t-bar is essential if you are going to wear it out and about, to ensure you aren't accidentally paying for your shopping and your butt plug plops out onto the floor in front of your neighbour!

The B-Balls are just perfect, this toy stays in all day long, is big enough that you feel a little stretch but not uncomfortable... and the way the balls move provides a unique sensation that just turns up to "ooooh' dial to factor 10! If you can wear this for more than a couple of hours without needing to rush to the nearest toilet and jill yourself senseless, you've got stronger will power than me!

Best for discrete fun - Fifty Shades Freed My Body Blooms Rechargeable Knicker Vibrator with Remote - £94.99 from LoveHoney.co.uk

OK, so definitely not the snappiest title here, and I was a little put off by the "Fifty shades" tag when I first bought these. I worried that they may be some cheap piece of merchandising and not a serious erotic instrument! But there was absolutely nothing to worry about. The knickers themselves are actually made by Coco De Mer, which may explain the rather eye watering price tag, but they are lovely and, although a little fiddly, look and feel so sexy.

I've had various pairs of vibrating knickers over the years and they have come such a long

way. no more wires poking out, chunky plastic remotes or cheap, polyester knickers. This whole set up is perfect. The vibe itself lives inside a little pocket in the knickers, and designed to fit snuggly against your clit. Yum!

And they truly are discreet and can be worn in public. Super quite when being used, with different settings and a good range for the vibe, they really are perfect for your partner controlling the vibrations with you at their mercy!

I've indulged in this so many times, it is such a turn on for me and my partners/clients. Just knowing that, as the women, someone else is controlling those vibes and, as the lucky person with the remote, knowing what you are doing to the other person... in public... proper thrills!

The vibrations aren't over powering, but I have cum before when using them and as part of an overall sexual experience in public, they are really hard to beat.

Best for enjoying with a female partner - Tantus Feeldoe - £114.99 from ThePleasureGarden.co.uk

This was probably the easiest pick if I'm honest. Here's the problem... you're a woman who likes women and you also like to be a little in control. I know this isn't the case for all Bi or Gay women, but I like fucking another woman, simple as that. Love the feeling it gives me. But Strap ons are just awful. It takes ages to get them on, you really can't "fuck" properly with them and as the wearer, they do absolutely nothing for me.

Then a couple of years ago I saw an article for this weird looking thing called a Feeldoe from a US company called Tantus. It changed everything. The "bulb" fits snuggly in your pussy (it's surprising how good it feels and if you've been doing your kegle exercises like a good girl how well it stays in), there is a strong vibe inside and some lovely ridges that meet your clit, meaning you truly get a lot of pleasure as the wearer.

So on to the receiver. I has a girlfriend when I got my original Feeldoe (I'm on number 2 as I lost the first one!). She was a little bit sub and enjoyed being fucked and we muddled through with the strap on but I'll never forget the first time we used this. "Oh my fucking god" were her words as I pounded her gorgeous little pussy from behind (it does work best in Doggy). She couldn't get enough. I have been on the receiving end a couple of times myself and, whilst I don't think it will ver replace a real cock for me, it is absolutely the closest thing you will get.

Loads of companies make similar products now and you can get them in different sizes, colours and even realistic "cock like" ones. but the original, for me, is still the best.

Best for "why the hell not?" - Fox Tail Metal Butt Plug - £16.00 from LovePlugs.co.uk

OK, so I know this is 6, not 5, but I love this one so much I had to include it. When did this become a thing? I have no idea, but I feel like in the last year, animal tail butt plugs have become massive. And I totally get why, there is something really really sexy about having a big, bushy tail! Go figure!

Now, don't get me wrong, I don't regularly dress up as woodland animals, but having this gorgeous, thick furry tail peaking out from beneath my skirt or dress (and yes, I mostly wear it out rather than in the comfort of my own home) is really fucking sexy. And knowing that the tail is attached to a tasty, stainless steel butt plug that is securely nestled in my ass... it just turns me on.

I'll be honest, I don't tend to use it much during actual sex, but on a sexy night out when I'm going clubbing, it is an amazing conversation stater and guarantees me lots of attention (who wouldn't want that). And what better way to let people know the type of girl you are than having a tail attached to a butt plug poking under your skirt!

So there you go, a few tips from me to you. I would love to hear what toys you guys have what your faves are, how, when (and with whom) you use them and whether this blog has prompted any interesting new purchases. Remember, we make no money form any of this here at minxxx, it's all just for the love of porn, sex and naughtiness.

Take care,